Top: Old Navy (mom’s is from Poshmark though because Old Navy is sold out) // My Pants: Thanks Mom! // Bag: Karl Lagerfeld (old) // Shoes: TJ Maxx (old) // Mom’s Pants: Banana Republic // Mom’s Bag: Ewa Bazaar
**DISCLAIMER: SUPER LONG READ!
NEW JOB: MARKETING/GRAPHIC DESIGN/PHOTOGRAPHY
I have been so busy getting used to this new job! Even though it’s busy, I’m really truly loving it. Previously, I was bogged down attempting to make customers happy without any help from upper management. However, now, I’m able to be creative and time flies at work, because I just get in the zone! The best part, is upper management is involved and doesn’t just turn a blind eye.
Last week, I was trying to shoot some photos for a new campaign and I got to go shopping for supplies for the staging portion, followed by actually taking the photos, this is super fun for me. Granted it ended up being super windy by the time I was able to take the actual photos (we wanted the pictures outside because there was beautiful lighting) and I had to take it home with me over the weekend, but these are things I enjoy doing. I know for some people this would be annoying, but I seriously love this!
I feel like I will be able to work to my full potential now. I am allowed to be creative. Being able to basically do what I already do for my blog, but on a bigger scale is definitely fun for me. I have a feeling that I will have to slow it down on my blog a bit at least until I get used to this job. I’m not working crazy hours like my last job, but certain things I do have to do at home, because it’s much easier for me to stage and photograph at home since I have everything on hand, and it’s much easier than lugging everything back and forth to work every day.
PREVIOUS JOB: CUSTOMER SERVICE
I’ve been in customer service/account management for so long that I finally feel free. Customer service/account management can get really hard sometimes. Not just the work itself, but working with different customers and being able to deal with the brunt of the anger. At my last job I dealt with very well-known companies and of course, the people I worked with were extremely rude, and that’s putting it nicely. Being yelled at by customers was part of the job, and upper management didn’t do a damn thing to step in and help put out the fire, EVEN when the customer asked to speak with upper management. It wasn’t until the customer’s head honcho stepped in and contacted upper management themselves that they stepped in. The worst part, is they didn’t back up customer service. They made us look like the bad guys, and them look like the heroes. I exchanged a few choice words with a VP once because I thought it was really shitty of them.
SHAME ON YOU
One time at another job I was actually brought to tears by a customer, and I don’t cry at work. So the mental abuse is a real thing. You have to be a very specific type person to work in customer service. If you’re reading this and you’re one of those people who yells at customer service reps all the time, well shame on you! You’re yelling at someone who is just your contact, who doesn’t make the rules, usually asks for management to step in but gets shot down until you, the customer, asks multiple times, and follows procedures because in case you didn’t know we can get in trouble (written up, even fired at some places) if we don’t follow procedures. Even though we know that upper management will cave, we don’t have the authority to make decisions.
Wow, sorry for that little rant haha. I wanted to finally speak my mind with how mentally exhausting customer service actually is. I do believe everyone should work in customer service, retail, and the food industry for at least 1 month in their life. People wouldn’t be as rude, and wouldn’t feel as entitled. Now, I understand that people choose to work in this field, but that doesn’t give you the excuse to treat them like shit. Now, if they aren’t doing their job and are giving you attitude for absolutely no reason, well that’s different. Then you have every right to be upset and want to speak with a manager.
LINKUPS AND FEELING SOME TYPE OF WAY
I also wanted to touch base on another thing today since I’m on the topic of being busy. I feel like this has been a very consistent thing I talk about here, so I do apologize for being so annoying about it. I’m actually getting annoyed of myself at this point. One of my blogger friends, posted about linkups last week. I actually never disclosed that bloggers have to pay to host these linkups, but thankfully she did. However, when I went to comment about my opinion on the linkups, and the most recent drop in participants in these linkups (there is a new setup with Inlinkz, and I noticed that ever since this happened, about half of the participants in my linkups stopped linking up, I personally, as a participant and hostess, hate the new setup) I saw a comment that stood out to me.
I DO APOLOGIZE
A blogger had mentioned how they stopped linking up with multiple people due to them being bad hostesses and not commenting back or replying. I’m totally guilty of this. If any of you reading this feel some type of way about linking up and not getting comments back from me, I do apologize. I try to reply to as many comments as I can, but unfortunately, sometimes it’s not feasible. Plus, I never saw replies to those comments except for maybe a handful of bloggers. I’m sure a lot of participants just drop their links and don’t really care about the content of my post anyway, and THAT’S OK! I offered this linkup to anyone who wants to participate, so it’s really not a big deal to me. As someone who participates in linkups, I do not expect the hostess to comment on every single person who links up, because those are a lot of people to talk to and you don’t want to start leaving generic comments, because in my opinion, that’s worse than not leaving any comments. To those who do comment on all of their participants links, I really don’t know how you do it and I applaud you, especially because some of y’all have more participants than me.
HOWEVER…
At the same time, I feel as though, I’m providing a linkup that costs me money, and I don’t charge (nor will I ever) if anyone ever wants to cohost like some bloggers out there. So, feeling some type of way that I don’t have time to reply to a comment or don’t have compassion for the fact that I’ve openly talked about how busy these past few years (mostly last year) have been, is a little, well, unfair. I used to comment on people’s blogs religiously, when I had the time. I had specific blogs that I read every day because of their content and commented. Then there were the new blogs I stumbled upon that I commented on. That’s actually how I met some of my blogger friends.
Am I at fault for not continuing to comment as much as I used to? Yes, absolutely, however there is more to the story. I’m not trying to start drama, but I need to say this so people understand, I’m not ignoring you. I really genuinely apologize if anyone feels this way. I do read your blogs and your comments. I’m actually better at engaging on social media than on my blog. Over the past few years, my days have legit turned into one long day and I keep forgetting we are in 2019. Let’s just put it this way, the other day I said 2017 and I was looked at like I had 5 heads. If you read my blogiversary post, you know that I worked a lot, in the past year especially, and just didn’t have the time or energy to go back to my blog at the end of the day. It started to feel like a chore, and I didn’t like that feeling.
NOT MAKING EXCUSES, BUT I NEED TO EXPLAIN MY LIFE
I work full time and part time, while also running this blog, and helping my mom manage hers. My fiance and I moved from NJ (31 years of my life moved!) to FL a few months ago. I’ll say it again for the people in the back, I’ve thought about shutting down my blog several times in this past year because of my lack of time and energy. I’m exhausted! In November of 2017, I had my first seizure in a very long time, so I’m trying to take care of my health because that will come first before anyone and before my blog, no offense. Over the past few years, I’ve dealt with loved ones with an addiction. Some ended fatally, and one of them almost ended fatally, but they survived. If you’ve never dealt with a loved one with an addiction, I really hope you never do. It was one of the darkest and hardest parts of my life to see someone I care (and their friends and family, even children) about go through something like that. I honestly never wanted to come out and say that here on my blog because of the stigma that surrounds it, and the opinions from both sides. I also got some bad news about some health issues with family in Poland recently, so my mind is definitely preoccupied.
What you see on social media is a small glimpse of my life. The fun that I have and #LIFEWITHJOE Instastories, is what keeps me sane. I try to show all of my good days. I have really hard days, but I like to keep most of it private, unless I know it might be beneficial to someone going through the same thing. With that being said, if you read my blog, I share a TON of my life here, so imagine how much stuff I have going on to keep most of it private. When I say I’m busy, I’m not making excuses.
I have also emailed multiple people who have commented and asked specific questions on a topic and more times than not, I actually don’t receive responses. However, I don’t take it personally! I know people get busy, and I know that things happen. I’ve had people read my emails and email me weeks later saying they completely forgot to email me back. I’m also sure that some of my emails go into spam. I understand though. Some people might comment something because they don’t know what else to comment but they don’t actually want to continue the conversation, which is totally fine. It also doesn’t help that a lot of us (I’ve had this discussion with a few blogger friends) receive MLM (read my MLM post here) emails/DM’s ALL. THE. TIME. So sometimes a genuine email/message will definitely be missed.
I WILL TRY
I will try my best to start engaging with y’all more, especially those who link up every week, but I honestly cannot make any promises. Please do not take it personally. I have a lot on my plate, so who knows, this year might be the year I actually shut down my blog. Financially, I might have to, or take the time to go back to non self hosted which I don’t know if I would have to migrate again. In case y’all don’t know, when you’re self hosted, you have to pay for it, and I’m not talking about just the costs of a domain, that’s the most inexpensive part of the entire thing. I also used to buy clothing (shopping for stuff on sale was fun, but I did it a lot so it added up) a lot more to be able to bring y’all new outfits all the time. Honestly, I cannot do that anymore. I also would never feel right buying something and returning it just to take some blogging pictures. Maybe for one or two outfits, but not every single one. I know some bloggers actually do this to keep their blog fresh and new all the time. I always want to be authentic and actually wear what I’m wearing on my blog. Otherwise I would be fake. There are a lot of factors in not being able to keep up with this blog, and I am sorry, but I will try my best to do better. That’s all that I can honestly say.
Sorry if this post upsets anyone, that’s not my intention whatsoever! Just wanted to speak my mind and clear up a few things.
Now, let’s linkup with my mom and me!
xoxo Monica
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Aw, Monica, my friend, I am so sorry if I stirred up any controversy. You know, of course, that was not my intent. I just wanted some feedback on the topic. And I guess I got lots of feedback, didn’t I?! Can I tell you that I never mentioned before about the charges for hosting link ups as I always assumed everyone knew there was a charge. I was shocked at how many people had no idea that we had to pay to use the inlinkz service. The same with hosting giveaways. And that fee is really quite high in my opinion which is why I rarely host giveaways. As for non-bloggers, I think they really have no idea all the costs involved in running a website. I try to not think about how much money is spent on managing my website because it would make me cringe! In any event, thank you for keeping it real, my friend. It is one of the many qualities that I admire about you. And I don’t think any one is super offended by decreased interaction. It happens to all of us. I can’t visit all the links that join my parties either. I used to visit and comment on all of them in the beginning, but then it got so big and I host two a week, so it’s over 200 blog posts. I just don’t have the time. I don’t know who does have that kind of time even if blogging is their full time job. Just keep on doing what you do because we all adore you! Great tee shirt, by the way! I love the way you have styled it. I have the same tee and have worn it like 5 times on the blog already. It is one of my favorites! And I am so glad that you are loving your new job!
Shelbee
http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com
Oh my gosh, do not apologize! You didn’t stir anything up haha. I like that you brought about that discussion because so many people don’t know the costs that we incur, and to be completely honest, if my participants keeps decreasing, I will probably stop using Inlinkz and shut down my linkups because if I ever end up only having 10 people link up, it’s really not worth that charge, I’d rather engage with them in our comments section, or even follow each other on social media and keep up there too. I’ve never gotten even close to 200 links, the most participants I ever had was about 100. Even having my average (before the new Inlinkz) of 60-80 links is just too much for me. I used to comment on every single link, but it’s just not feasible for me anymore, and I feel like if I pick and chose who I will comment on other people will get upset haha. I’m just too nice for my own good sometimes. I do agree that the fee is high. I mean it increased by over 100%, that’s a bit ridiculous in my opinion. Especially because the new setup has significantly decreased participants. I know that I haven’t been linking up as often as I do. It’s a mix of being busy and also just hating the new setup. Yes, I’ve seen you wear this top before! I feel like so many people have it and love it that Old Navy should bring it back haha.
I totally feel your pain…I’m not the best at commenting/replying to comments. Sometimes I do feel guilty about it, but I simply do the best that I can. I’m much better at it in the Summer because I’m off work and thus have more time. Juggling work, life and a blog takes a lot of skill and a lot of time and I think that many people don’t necessarily understand that. Especially if someone doesn’t blog, they don’t always realize the time and money involved. Taking care of yourself is what’s important, so don’t beat yourself up too much about all of it! xo
Debbie
http://www.fashionfairydust.com
Amen sista! I feel guilty about it for sure and I always say, “I’m going to set time aside this weekend, even if it’s an hour to go back and comment.” However, it never happens. Something always happens or comes up where I just can’t have that extra hour. I don’t even have that much time to pay attention to my social media either. I used to be more invested in making sure I commented on a certain amount of posts a week, and it’s just not feasible. My weekends consist of working on Saturdays, and then Sundays are all about blogging pictures and getting this house together. We are still not fully moved in, which I’m so embarrassed about because it’s been so long already. The time and money that goes into a blog is ridiculous. Especially if you are buying DSLR’s and laptops, even editing software.
Don’t feel bad. My motto is do the best you can and then don’t worry about it. Congrats on the new job. It sounds wonderful.
Thank you Julie! The problem is, is I’m too nice for my own good. I beat myself over the tiniest things. I don’t want anyone to think I’m ignoring them, but I can see how they would think that for sure!
Love these cool pants you paired with this graphic tee! Your mom looks amazing too. Thanks for the link up and so glad you found a job that fuels your soul.
https://www.kathrineeldridge.com
Thanks so much Kathrine! Yes, we both are obsessed with this shirt haha. Old Navy needs to bring it back because I know so many people that want one, but I had to get my mom’s on Poshmark because Old Navy had sold out already.
As a new blogger, I really appreciate you for hosting a link up as it gets my blog out there, so thank you! You have quite a busy life so it is very understandable that you cannot answer all the comments. Glad about your new job, sounds like a great fit for you!
http://www.chezmireillefashiontravelmom.com
Thank you so much! Linkups are meant for people to mingle. I’ve actually discovered quite a few blogs and even blogger friends through linkups! I’m so thankful for that and wanted to do that for other bloggers as well. The new job is definitely a great fit!
I use to work in retail and what you said about upper , management is spot on. The would make me follow the rules or be written up, so then the customer would go around me, contact corporate, and then they’d give her want she wanted anyway.
I worked in retail for the first 10 years of my working life. As soon as I was legally able to work, off to retail it was. I remember when I was a manager and someone had actually asked to speak to a manager and I answered with “ma’am, I am the manager.” Not going to lie, that was THE BEST feeling ever! She was stunned. She then threw a pair of shoes at me and said she wanted to talk to my boss haha. She was trying to return a pair of worn shoes that you could tell were at least 5 years old judging by the style and she didn’t have a receipt, and wanted cash back. Ugh, people just need to feel entitled all the time!
Hey, Monica! I’m so glad you have a new job that makes you happy! I understand the fun, creative aspect and how it doesn’t feel like work, even if you’ve brought it home. I owned a consignment store, although it’s retail, not customer service, I do have a bit of a feeling of what you’re going through. My daughter is currently working in food service at the Magic Kingdom, and, boy, does she have “guest” stories! I hop in and out of link ups, sometimes I am able to visit more links than others. I don’t expect the hostess to visit every one, but a bonus if they are able to stop in. Take care, girl!
Working retail is a type of customer service. The only difference is that it’s face to face. That can sometimes be good and sometimes be bad depending on a person and situation. Sometimes people prefer to hide behind a computer or phone to yell at you, and don’t have the guts to do it in person. I can’t even imagine what stories your daughter has. Those must be some interesting ones haha.
It’s hard to keep up with social media interaction and blog interaction. In fact it’s quite impossible. I’ve learned to just do it day by day and if I get to each comment then I do and some days I don’t. It’s tough because there aren’t enough hours in the day but it’s just what it is. Thanks for hosting each week!
http://www.ruthyannie.com
It really is tough. This is one of the reasons why I don’t have children, I honestly do not have time. I can’t even imagine those bloggers like yourself who have kids and do this too. I really give y’all props for sure.
I understand that it is hard for a hostess to comment on every post in a linkup because it is time consuming. I really don’t mind if a hostess does not comment back on every single post I write. I am just thankful that bloggers like you continue to host linkups! I knew lineups took a lot of time but I never knew it costs money!
Yea, a lot of people I guess didn’t know that they cost money. Recently the price increased over 100%. $7.99/month doesn’t sound so bad, until you actually think about what you’re actually paying that money for. All that you do is write your requirements for the linkup, then you update the date and times. I mean, in my opinion, the linkup isn’t worth $7.99, BUT, it helps bloggers engage and find other new bloggers so I can justify paying that for now. Unless of course my participants drop even more, then I will definitely have to reconsider. Thank you for linking up and understanding!
Did you know there was actually a time when responding to comments wasn’t even a thing?!! I had someone tell me that and I was like…take me back!! I love the relationships and engaging but with all the different social media options it’s just impossible to keep up with it all and have another job…or any kind of life! And yes….the fact that inlinz went from $2.99 to $7.99 and is less user friendly is thumbs down. I’ve seen some people trying out the link party animal linkup option…it’s in beta testing right now but seems to be working well and free for the time being. Keep it up girl..you are doing great!
Thank you for mentioning the party animal linkup option. I just can’t believe Inlinkz would increase the price THAT much, it’s a little ridiculous. Especially because I’ve had so many issues with links not starting on time, and I’ve also hated the new setup as a participant. I used to be so good at commenting, but I’ve unfortunately fallen off the bandwagon. I feel bad because I really hope people think I’m ignoring them or feel a certain type of way, but after saying how busy I am in almost every post, I would hope that everyone would understand. I really don’t want to just stop this blog cold turkey, but I think my time is coming. Or, I just need a much needed break to regroup and take some time to myself.
First of all, congrats on the new job! I don’t think I could ever work in customer service (I did work in retail for years), but then again, there are lots of jobs I could never do. 😉 Secondly, don’t be too hard on yourself for not responding to comments. I was spending 5-6 hours a day engaging on Instagram and finally had an epiphany that time is money, so now I do a lot less and am much happier (and it really hasn’t hurt my engagement). Just do the best you can—I think you’re doing a great job. Finally, I am not a huge fan of the new InLinkz format either (and it sucks that you’re being charged MORE for an inferior product), but as my yoga teacher always says, the only constant is change.
Cheryl Shops | http://www.cherylshops.net
Thank you Cheryl! I’m very excited about the new job in case you couldn’t tell haha! Retail is a type of customer service in my opinion, but working in an office where you’re title is “customer service” when you’re really doing so much more than that. It’s actually account management, along with being every single person’s secretary! I wasn’t spending that much time alone on Instagram, but was spending about that much time engaging on every platform possible, including actual blogs. It can get so exhausting sometimes.
First, I you and your mom look adorable. I love the sound of your new job and want some photography training when our lives calm down and we’re finally able to meet – ha!
This post is not upsetting in anyway. I’ve always appreciated how forthcoming you are – it’s authenticity, even down to the I don’t buy outfits all the time and return them. There so much I could say here…I’m with you on the busy…it’s not excuses, it’s life and sometimes (for me anyway) it’s trying to do it all. I’m a wife, mom of 4 boys, two of which I homeschool, we are in the ministry together, i’ve a house to keep up with (LAUNDRY and GROCERY shopping – ha!) and I blog. Like so many it started out as a hobby and the more fun I had with it the more I wanted to have a “side hustle”. I had no idea how much time was required. Then comes the growth game. Ugh! Anyway, I’m rambling. I comment when I can and admit that I love every comment that I receive and wish I could always return them.
Ok, I hope you don’t stop blogging. You would be missed. Thank you for hosting this link up and I say we engage where we can. Love seeing you on the gram! 😉
Yes, I would love to give you photography training! I did write an intro to the basics of photography a few weeks back if you want to read it as a summary. I could see buying an outfit for the blog maybe a handful of times because let’s be honest, you can only remix an outfit so many times, and some of us do not have the financial means to buy a new outfit for every post, but not for every outfit post. I actually enjoy doing laundry now that we finally have a washer and dryer, BUT because of my time restraints I usually do the Walmart pickup. I’m not sure if this is an option for you, but our Walmart is ginormous and usually has everything I’m looking for. Plus I’m able to shop for deals in peace in the comfort of wherever I am at the moment. Not sure if this would be of any use to you, but I figured I’d tell you what helps!
I so feel your pain, life has been crazy and it is so hard to stay on top of everything. As for link ups, I first hated the new set up but I am getting use to it and it does have a few fun positives like cloning. Add to all of the blog stuff all the technical we need and the stuff that can go wrong. I have not commented or linked up to a blog in three weeks because my site was down due to hosting issues arggg. Plus yep working full time and all that goes with that. I do love the mom and me posts you have,
The key is blog for the love not for everything else, just for a little bit until things get better under control
I do love the cloning feature, that is definitely something I agree with you on. I also do think their support team is much better now. At least with the experience that I have had so far because there was an issue when they first converted over. I just don’t like that you have to log in to link up, I think that’s stupid. Regardless if you’re just easily logging in through Facebook or into Inlinkz. It’s an extra step that is unnecessary. I’m so sorry that your site has been down! That’s the absolute worst! I don’t even know what I would do if my site would go down because of my new job, I legit would not have any time to call any support teams and have it fixed. I hope that gets worked out!
Monica, first of all, happy Friday! We made it to the end of another week so yay! Secondly, you don’t need to explain yourself or apologize. I know you might feel the need to but I am saying for me, I can understand. I don’t blog all that much and I can say as fulfilling as it is, it also comes with a price. I never spent so much time online just trying to engage and honestly, I am not even sure the results are all that worth it. With that said, we all have lives outside and we as bloggers should understand what it’s like. Lastly, I think people engage differently, I do both where I read blog posts and not comment and I also read blog posts and comment. For the most part, I don’t think it should be comment for comment. I like you and I follow you for that sole purpose and not because I can expect a comment from you. That goes for all the other bloggers I leave comments for. It’s because I enjoy reading their blogs and not expecting to be commented back on. On a last, last note (hehe) thank you for the link up. I know it comes out of your pocket to pay for this service and I appreciate being able to be a part of this community. Oh and yes, I owe you an email answer.
Maureen | http://www.littlemisscasual.com
Oh my gosh, I completely forgot I emailed you haha! Do you see how out of my mind I am?? Take your time answering, I honestly do not get upset about these things, because as you can see I forget about some of the emails I have. Blogging does come with a price, both financially and in other ways. I spend my entire Sundays (which is the ONLY day I have off) taking outfit photos and editing them. While also trying to get this house completely moved into and made into a home. I used to comment sooooooo much more, and I used to engage so much more, but it’s just become way too much for me nowadays and I do feel bad and I always say I’m going to put time aside and then something always happens.
Okay so I bad friend here, my comment should have been first of all, congratulations on your new job! So Monica, congratulations and I am happy to hear it’s a job that you enjoy! Yay!
Maureen | http://www.littlemisscasual.com
Hahaha! No worries, I wrote about A LOT in this post. Thank you though love!
I think it’s ridiculous to expect someone to comment on every single blog that links up! Gracious! You’re doing great, and as someone who often reads, often links up and does NOT often comment, I say – just keep doing what you’re doing!
xo Tea
Right?! I thought maybe I was just being a heartless person thinking that was ridiculous. However, judging by this comments section I’m really happy I’m not the only one. I really don’t mind if people linkup and don’t comment, I mean I’m providing this linkup for people to join in on the fun. Blogging should be fun in my opinion! Unless it’s full time, then that’s a little different because that comes with more responsibilities. When your business is your only way of income and it’s not stable, that’s different.
Congratulations on your new job. It’s always exciting to start a new role, especially if it’s one that makes one happy.
Xx, Nailil
http://thirtyminusone.com
Thank you so much Nailil!
Hi Monica. Speaking of being extremely busy (I work full time, including 10-12 hour Saturdays most of them, and I am a full time single mom, plus I blog), I have been mentioning that on my blog a lot in the recent months, too. My main reason why I haven’t joined linkups that much since the Holidays is not because of the new InLinkz format which I also don’t like at all, but because I am so busy and I cannot wake up earlier than I already do each morning and have to get two people ready each morning. We all have our daily routines. With that said, sorry I haven’t joined your linkups that much. Sorry for not commenting as often as I did also. Trust me – I want to engage and comment more but darn it – I CANNOT! Life is too damn busy and hectic. 24 hours are not enough! And your post explained it perfectly. I truly hope you continue blogging though. I like you as a person and I love your style too. And I regularly watch your Insta stories and follow your Insta posts. Speaking of style, what an adorable tee which I need as a coffee lover. I love how similar yet different you and your mom are. Two great pairs of pants!
Last but not least, congrats on the new job. It is perfect for an experienced blogger like you. It sounds like the perfect job to me. And I agree everyone should work at least a month in retail, customer service and the food industry. I have tried all three and have so much appreciation for all of those industries. =)
Looking forward to all this week’s posts on my blog, especially my birthday party posts on Saturday and Sunday and The Sunday Showcase Linkup. So glad you will be a part of it, also. =) As always I have enjoyed every one of our collaborations through the years and I treasure them as I treasure your friendship, too, Monica. =)
<3 Ada.
So, if there’s anyone who understands, it’s definitely you. With all of what you said above, I honestly have no idea were you find the time to blog! How do you do it???? I need tips on managing my time more, but sometimes I’m just too exhausted, both mentally and physically. If I added children to the mix I really don’t think I would still be blogging. Also, thank you! It has been a whirlwind of a time so far. I’m shocked at how fast paced it is here because everyone kept warning me I’d be so bored with how slow everything is here. I’m used to fast pace and stressing hahahaha! I’m not sure if that’s a good thing, but it is when it comes to working. Also, thank you for your kind words regarding me continuing to blog. I think I might take some time off from it to regroup and decide whether or not I want to keep going. Don’t ever apologize to me for not linking up or commenting! You are ridiculously sweet for doing that, but please, do not add more stress to your life over linking up!